Thursday, January 24, 2013

Loving kindness is something that I have had no problem showing to others in is hard to me to show it to myself, as if I am somehow undeserving. I did like the loving kindness exercise, how ever the woman's voice was somewhat hard to listen to: it isn't as soothing to me as the mans voice from the previous assignments. I love the ocean and flute, both of those have always been relaxing to me. I struggled with once again trying not to fall asleep and really focus on the exercise. I do plan on trying to do this everyday because practice makes you better. I would recommend this to others, because I believe it can be beneficial. I think the first time you try something new that it takes a bit of time to get use to.
I believe mental workout consist of two parts, one clearing your mind of negativity and clutter and than two filling it with loving kindness and intentional thought. My mind wanders all the time I can hardly read anything with out it wondering what I am going to cook for dinner or am I going to be able to get all I need to do today. The other thing I do that can be destructive is carry out conversations in my mind. When I should confront someone and I am not sure how I play over all the scenarios in my mind of what I think they would say. Most of the time I think that I just get angrier.
I think the more you do mental exercises the more your phychological health can improve. The more at peace you feel with the world around you as well as iner peace the better you will feel over all mentaly and spiritually.

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  1. I agree that it is easier to show loving-kindness to others than it is to ourselves. I think that the place to begin is to accept ourselves and like ourselves no matter what place we are in our lives. Also we need to forgive ourselves for our mistakes. I like how the exercise tells us to address our wondering thoughts and then let them go. Why do you think it is destructive to carry out conversations in your mind? I think it can be a valuable tool to help you clear your thoughts, but I can see that if it makes you angrier that it isn't helping. Why don't you try and write the person a letter expressing your feeling and then burn the letter and as you do that imagine that you are burning your angry feelings?

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    1. I think that is one issue I have is forgiving myself for the mistakes I have made. That you for addressing that. When I have conversations in my mind I usually make the person talking to me have negitive additudes, that is why I think it can me destructive. I do like the letter idea, thank you I will try that.

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  2. Hi Debbie~

    I feel as if you and I wrote the same post! I too have huge problems giving myself loving-kindness. I am trying to carve out 15 to 30 minutes of my day for some type of meditation. This exercise is good because it makes me give myself love, something that is important in my journey of growth in being a better person that is more at peace with myself and my world around me.

    I wish you luck in finding the time to love yourself because we both have learned from this class how important that can be in our development as a caring human.

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  3. This exercise was geared more towards “inner love” and feelings that are associated with love and those feelings that are associated with discomfort. Would you recommend this exercise over some of the others that we have done? I like the relaxation techniques that are more focused on breathing rather than thought.

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